Normally, when you say “Okozukai”, I think many people imagine the money that parents give to their kids. But in Japan there are many salarymen who get “Okozukai” from their wife.
Among my friends who are married, there’s a wife who controls all the money earned by her husband, every month she gives him 30,000 yen as pocket money. Her husband must manage with only 30,000 yen a month.
Among my former coworkers, there’s somebody exceptional who was receiving 30,000 yen from his wife, but as he didn’t spend money so much, he was giving her back 10,000 yen. He was bringing with him a packed lunch made by his wife and after work he was hardly going out to drink with his coworkers, he was a serious person who was going home directly.
My friend who gives 30,000 yen as pocket money to her husband showed me a new brand-name bag she had just bought the other day. When I listened to her, even though she was a housewife it seemed that, compared to her husband, she spends a lot of money on the things she likes. When I thought about her husband who works so hard and has to manage with only 30,000 yen I couldn’t help but feel pity for him.
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At home, like at the office, salarymen face difficult things.
Hi there, thanks a lot for the website, it was really helpful for me to learn everyday’s words in Japanese.
I have one question though. In the passage above you have the sentence, “過ごさなければならない”. I thought this sentence means “must exceed”, am I correct?
過ごす (to exceed)
過ごさない (not exceed)
過ごさなければ (if don’t exceed)
過ごさなければならない (can’t afford not to exceed / must exceed)
Hi Ang,
Thank you for your comment.
First, 過ごす has several meanings: it can indeed have the meaning of “exceed”, but in this sentence the meaning is “spend” not “exceed” .
毎月3万円で過ごす – I live with 30,000 yens every month. (I spend less than this.)
毎月3万円で過ごせない – I can’t live with 30,000 yens a month. (I will spend more.)
So since 毎月3万円で過ごす means “I live with 30,000 yens a month”, you turn this into the imperative form with ~なければならい and you get:
毎月3万円で過ごさなけらばならい – I have to live with 30,000 yens a month.
Hope this helps.