The other day I was hanging around with my boyfriend in Shinjuku and we saw a woman and a pale and slim guy with long hair and black clothes at the terrace of a coffee shop. They seemed to enjoy their conversation. When my French boyfriend saw the guy, he asked me whether he was a boy or a girl. After I said that was a boy, he looked confused and asked why there were many guys who looked like girls in Japan.
Certainly, when I think about it, I realize that there are many slim and long hair men in Japan. For my French boyfriend, they look like gay people. But actually they are not gay at all and they like women. They can be categorized as “Visual Kei”-ish men.
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“Visual Kei” is one of the categories of Japanese rock bands and musicians. Their big special features are flashy make-up, hair style and costume. “X JAPAN” is considered as the first Japanese “Visual Kei” band and they are quite famous in foreign countries. Of course my boyfriend knows them.
When I was a junior high and high school student, “Visual-Kei” bands were so popular and I had many classmates who were big fans of them. One of my friends, N-chan, was a big fan of “MALICE MIZER” which was a very famous “Visual Kei” band. When I saw her photo album, I could see a lot of photos in which she was wearing imitative costumes of the band. She really loved cosplay so she often went to Harajuku on weekends and visited the bridge where many people who like cosplay gathered. She met other fans there then exchanged information about the band.
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Nowadays “Visual Kei” bands are not so popular except with hardcore fans. But they have influenced a lot young men fashion. The fans of “Visual Kei” bands are mostly girls, however of course there are also many boys who admire them. Those persons, regardless of the gender, love to have long hair and to wear Gothic style clothes. Moreover, they have created their unique fashion and culture.
In Japan, cute and beautiful men are well accepted. Some women like masculine men who have a lot of muscles like Americans, but there are many women who want beautiful and delicate men.